Reverse ultimatum dating

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These situations that am talking about, of course had to be ones where I was in a relationship and my partner out of the blues decides ‘Hawi it’s over’; what is universally known as being DUMPED…Everyone (except for the lucky few…very few) have gone through a breakup where they were the ‘Dumped One’.Your Ex will think you are trying to manipulate him/her and this will push them further away from you (tsk tsk tsk).This has happened to me before (okay it didn’t go to the extent of them thinking am manipulating them, but I came out as desperate and a fake (haha, now it’s funny but then it wasn’t, because deep down I had PURE intention…yikes).Here is what I learnt; First what is reverse psychology anyway?Well, from what I understood, “It’s the act of behaving/acting/doing/saying the opposite of what you mean or want so as to make the other person act in the way you want them to, which is normally the opposite response to yours”. Rather than battling for your own side, simply state that you agree with the other person.

This experiment was originally introduced in 1970 by the German psychologists, Adorno and Horkheimer and proven right.How many of us have heard one of our close girlfriends or family members say one of the lines above?Or better yet, how many of us have repeated one of the lines above?So with that explained, using reverse psychology to get your ex back does work if done correctly and in the right context (that is if the love/hate is still there…why do I say this?Well because we all know that when indifference comes into the picture there is little if not nothing one can do to make the other person come back to you, they simply feel no emotion towards you).

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