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His failed marriage didn’t make him defected, but a man who had been through some stuff and had been forced to grow — and that was refreshing.He took me to museums and talked about politics deeper than a 16-page article, and at first I worried that he was too smart, too cultured for me, but once I got over my insecurities and learned to find my legs on this equal ground, I felt brighter to form opinions about his opinions, and more inspired in my own writing to see the artwork he was creating.for a bowl of Cocoa Puffs and a snuggle in front of “Law and Order.” There was a comfortable fondness and security.I knew he wasn’t going anywhere, literally and figuratively. I have a history of dating guys who couldn’t get it together (and to their credit, weren’t too stressed out about it, either).Or you could say I get off by mommying my boyfriends. And sure, helping (okay, nagging) them did provide me with a sense of usefulness.
Here are some signs that you’re dating down: You have your act together — he doesn’t.To be stimulated sexually, mentally and emotionally.To find someone who could hold his own and not get on my nerves. I went out with a guy who paid all of his bills on time, but who couldn’t stand up for himself.Another who was ablaze with self-confidence and sexual magnetism, but whose mom still cooked for him several times a week.I even dated a player type who seemed like he might dump me and he did.