Dating an old friend
"Compared with relationships I had with people I didn't go to high school or college with, I certainly felt a greater level of comfort at the onset," he says."Lauren and I continue to receive an overwhelming amount of support and encouragement from childhood friends and parents of friends who know us both—something I attribute in part to the fact people like rooting for home team' relationships."On the other hand my friend Sarah says she had a crush on her wife, Maddy, from the minute she met her in ninth grade.Today he lives with his girlfriend—a girl who, yes, we went to high school with.After joking with a friend about Oliver's dating plan I started to count the other instances of high school acquaintances getting together with each other only after graduation and could identify almost a dozen. I decided to reach out to a few of these high school friends and find out."I'm only going to date people I already know," he declared and set about reevaluating his attraction to the pool of girls we knew from high school.After joking with a friend about Oliver's dating plan I started to count the other instances of high school acquaintances getting together with each other only after graduation and could identify almost a dozen. I decided to reach out to a few of these high school friends and find out.A future spouse maybe waiting back in the past, and if that fails, there's always your old college friends. Or do you know a couple who have been together that long?Dating a friend is widely recognized to be a pursuit fraught with potential complications.
Ashley: We hooked up for a semester in college, then spent about two years being mostly just friends again while he did an internship in NY (I was still based in Indiana) then moved to Seattle.
Still, she says she was glad that her crush never developed into anything more serious until they were both ready.
"Maddy and I were both out in high school, and we both had girlfriends," Sarah explains.
Daren was acquaintances with his wife Lauren when we were all still worried about prom dates and detention, but it wasn't until eight years after graduation that they started dated.
Though Daren says the commonalities of growing up in the same I'll never forget when my good friend Oliver decided to change the focus his dating life.